Sharing Sexual Fantasies (First
Timers)
Sharing
your sexual fantasies with your
partner is not for all couples and
is not always easy. However by
sharing it can become a very erotic
part of your sexuality. If you and
your partner are close, have a solid
relationship and can talk about sex
then you are well on your way. As a
general rule this type of sharing
can lead to building a stronger more
open and fun relationship and can be
the stimulant that keeps sexuality
alive and well.
First
and foremost talk to your partner
about sex and share openly the
things that turns you on. Both must
realize and come to grips with the
fact that everyone has sexual
fantasies and that these thought are
normal and can be a healthily part
of your relationship.
1.
Accept your normal fantasies as a
part of you. Do not be ashamed or
feel guilt of these thoughts.
2. Have
your mate to agree to a fantasy
night's). Plan 1 night for each of
you.
3. On
your night set the mood for sex.
4.
During foreplay whisper tid bits and
monitor your mates physical
response. (You will know if it is
positive)
5.
Continue sharing during sex.
6.
Sometime after sex talk with your
mate about the fantasy. Ask them to
share things that they liked, or
dislike about it. Discuss any
emotional issues that they maybe
having.
NOTE:
It is normal to have feelings of
guilt or jealousy in the beginning.
The important thing it to keep
communications alive and to set
boundaries that will not be hurtful
to your mate. These boundaries are
to be respected by both parties.
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