Jealousy!
Entering into an open sexual
relationship, often times, even
though one believes with all their
heart they are ready for sexual
experimentation, and feel they have
issues of jealousy under control, it
can still rear its ugly head. Yes
for the most part the sexual desires
of entering an open relationship
over powers the fear of jealousy,
yet both must become prepared if and
when the jealousy issues manifests
itself.
First
and foremost it must be understood
by both parties that if and when
jealousy stings the heart, either
person can openly come to the other.
Please do not make rash decisions
during the time of the jealousy
sting as it could be detrimental to
the relationship. Rather tell the
other about the sting of the heart
and why it hurts. Both must work
together and not become rash in
their decision making as it will
take both to work together and build
the relationship to a more stable
and positive union. In fact the
sting of jealousy can be very
healthy and lead to building a
relationship to the highest levels.
Tips
for Dealing with Jealousy
1. Talk
about why, how, when jealousy
stings.
2.
Openly and honestly listen to your
mate.
3.
Reassure each other of the
unconditional love that is shared.
4. Fill
your mates cup everyday with love
and affection.
5. Take
time away from an open relationship,
if needed, and allow each other to
heal and further develop a stable
loving relationship.
6.
Re-evaluate the lifestyle decisions
to ensure that the life you are
living is the best for both in the
relationship.
7. Ever
remember that you and your mate must
totally agree and you must be of one
mind when it comes to open
relationships.
8. If
you both cannot agree an open
relationship is not applicable to
your situation.
9. Look
deeper, problems of jealous can stem
from past events and conditions of
life before you and your patent got
together. So help each other explore
the issues surrounding jealousy.
10. If
jealousy become destructive to a
relationship, seek professional
counseling to correct.
Checking the Temperature of Jealousy
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real life situation. This will help
one gauge if the next step is
actually practical and beneficial
for ones relationship.
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