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The G-Spot " Grafenberg spot"

Many people have heard all sorts of stories about the mysterious G-spot and its supposedly magical effects on women and their orgasms. Drs. John Perry and Beverly Whipple named the "G-spot" in honor of Ernst Grafenberg, a German physician who, in the 1950s, wrote an article that mentioned "an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation." However, the G-spot was cited as far back as the 1700s, when a Dutch anatomist spoke of "the substance called, quite aptly, 'the female prostate.'" This anatomist was also the first person to write about "female ejaculation," a phenomenon that is often -- incorrectly -- associated exclusively with G-spot stimulation.

What is the G-Spot

The G-spot is a small area located on the upper wall of the vagina, toward the belly, about two to three inches from the opening. Although many women have not had success finding their G-spots, in a recent study its presence was confirmed in all of the women examined. That does not mean, however, that all women find stimulation of this area pleasurable.

For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm.
This area became popularized by sexologists in the 1980s as the "G-spot." It turns out that stimulation of the G-spot can produce a very powerful kind of female orgasm; and in some women, it even produces female ejaculation, colloquially known as "squirting." Other women find that the G-Spot is not as stimulating. However the truth still remains for many that finding and stimulating the G-spot has become, for both men and women, the Holy Grail of female pleasuring.

Where is G-Spot Located

The G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so foreplay is very important. The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina towards the belly, right behind the pubic bone. The G-spot corresponds to spongy tissue that is wrapped around the urethra. When women are aroused the tissue becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. And for some, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate.

Self-Exploration (Finding G-Spot)

The G-Spot is located along the upper/front wall of the vagina, about two inches in, towards the stomach. Try some manual exploration. Lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and rest your feet on the bed in front of you. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and gently stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone, about two inches up. You should feel a patch of skin that has a different texture from the rest of your vaginal walls, slightly rough or "ruffled." Using a "come hither" motion, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area that is sensitive to pressure. That's your G-Spot, also known as your urethral sponge. It's on the other side of your vaginal wall, which is why you'll probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area is about the size of a pea, but can enlarge to the size of a walnut when stimulated. You should also know that many women feel like they need to urinate when this area is stimulated. This is due to the fact that, as it enlarges, it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. Most women find, however, that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and is replaced with pleasurable sensations.

Couples Exploring Finding G-Spot

To locate the G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it upward toward yourself, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure. If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.

Other Ways to Discover Her G-Spot

Exploration
Ask her to lie on her belly, legs apart, and hips rotated slightly upwards. Insert two fingers (palm down) and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch. . Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen, just above the pubic hairline, and apply a soft, downward pressure. This often helps to stimulate her G-Spot.
Position one
Guide her on to her hands and knees, with her buttocks raised and her head down. Kneel behind her and grasp her by her waist. As you penetrate her vagina in this position the head of your penis will hit her G-Spot automatically.
Position two
Guide her on to her back, raising her buttocks and lower back. As you mount her, gently bend her legs so that her knees touch her breasts. Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.
Position three
Lie on your back, with your legs extended. Have your little lady straddle you, with her knees positioned outside your legs, she will be facing your feet with her back turned to you. In this unique position, your penis will easily hit her G-Spot.
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Pointers on Stimulating the G-Spot

Relax. This should be fun, not a goal-oriented mission.

Use a lubricant you like.

Masturbate or foreplay in the usual way until you feel aroused.

Insert one or two fingers into the vagina, crooking them up toward the belly (12 o'clock position if you are lying on your back).

Press firmly against the roof of the vagina about one-third of the way in.

You/she should feel a small ruffled lump that increases in size with continued stimulation.

Start slow: insert your fingers gently and use soft, gentle motions at first. When you feel the G-Spot area becoming enlarged, use more pressure.

Remember to keep paying attention to other parts of your/her body: breasts, clitoris ... whatever feels good.

As the body begins to respond positively and you/she start feeling pleasure, use more pressure and more rapid motions.

Continue to stimulate the G-Spot, the vagina clench and bear down, the signal that orgasm is imminent. Apply more pressure to the urethral sponge, stroking and manipulating the area around the urethral opening.

You/she may feel the urge to urinate. Don't fight it! You may be getting ready to ejaculate. Relax, trust your body and your partner, and see what happens.

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