Erogenous Zones
(Erotic Zones or Hot Spots for Men
and Women)
 Erogenous
zones are areas where a man/woman
may be touched that are quite
pleasurable. While personal tastes
vary, the "given" areas are those
with crowded populations of nerve
endings, where the skin is most
sensitive to touch. Erogenous zones
are areas of the human body that
respond to stimulation in the form
of sexual arousal. Everyone's
erogenous zones are different in the
sense that what may feel good to one
person, may not to someone else. Men
and women can have the same and
different zones. So explore, observe
your partner and discover your own
erogenous zones.
Stimulate the Neck
With
you finger tips explore her neck
region and observe as you hit spots
that sexually stimulate.
Kisses to neck and surrounding
regions. Start out soft and gentle
until he/she gets into in, then
increase intensity gradually.
Warm
breath on neck can drive one wild.
Stimulate the Ears
With
pads of your finger tips or tongue
explore the out ear.
Gently squeeze, suck and or nibble
earlobes.
Explore areas behind the ear with
your finger tips and tongue.
(WARNING: Few women like a tongue
jammed inside the ear)
Lightly moan or whisper erotic
sounds in the ear.
Stimulate the Lips
Outline the lips with
your tongue or finger tips.
Kiss
with varying intensity as sexual
stimulation increases.
Use
your lips, tongue, teeth and fingers
to explore the lips.
Gently suck the lips.
Try
different things and find what works
for your partner.
Stimulate the Breast (Chest)
NOTE: A mistake
men make is being to Vigorous and
rough before the women is ready. Be
patient and consider your woman's
mood and needs at that given time.
Avoid going for the nipples first on
most women.
Touch Breast Softly as if exploring
them for the first time.
Massage the breast gently and
increase intensity as she desires.
Explore the beast with fingers,
hands, mouth and tongue and observe
her responses.
Nipples are
particularly sensitive and it will
depend on the individual as well as
the level of sexual excitement as to
how gentle or soft to explore.
Stimulate the
Perineum
The perineum is the
area between the vagina or penis and
the anus, it is very sensitive for a
lot of men and women and it often
goes unexplored. It's made from
tissue similar to the vaginal lips
so there are a lot of nerve endings
there.
Explore this area by fingers, tongue
or month.
Stimulating right before orgasm can
be highly erotic.
Stimulate the Buttocks
Men
and women both find that their
buttocks can be a great erogenous
zone.
Massage and explore the buttocks not
only as foreplay but also while
having erotic sex. It is not as
sensitive as other areas which means
you can stimulate them a bit harder
as a general rule. Stimulate by
rubbing, massaging, grabbing and
some even like them spanked. Find
out what your partner likes and add
this area to you art of stimulation.
Explore (with hand, fingers, tongue,
kisses) the crease between the curve
of the buttock and the top of the
thighs.
Stimulate the Back
A
back massage (exploration) can be
erotic but as a general rule it can
relax your partner and help them
clear their mind before getting to
erotic sex. Start by exploring the
back with your finger tips. Explore
every inch, then explore by
touching. As the exploring
progresses, increase intensity and
focus a bit on the lower back. While
massage and exploring with your
hands, fingers, tongue or kisses,
help you partner release and let go
of stress. This can no doubt be the
most important park of making sex
great as on prepares and relaxes the
body and mind.
Other Areas To Stimulate
Exploration and stimulation can
actually be any part of the body as
nerve ending are everywhere. Learn
the art of exploration but using the
lightest touch of your finger tips,
the tip of your tongue, gently kiss
and massaging in varies intensities.
Below are some other areas that can
be highly stimulating to both men
and women.
Fingers
Feet/Toes
Naval
Inner sides of thighs
Wrist
Hands
Knees (Behind, Inside and Front,
Especially sensitive on women)
Signs of Stimulation
Knowing if what you are doing is
stimulating your partner sexually is
very important. Be sure to learn you
partner and develop ways of
interpreting if you are going in the
right direction. If your partner is
becoming sexually aroused he/she may
show some or the below referenced
signs.
Dilation of the pupils
Erect nipples
Hardening of Penis (men)
Swelling of the breasts (women)
Swelling of the clitoris (women)
Swelling of the inner vaginal lips
(women)
Dramatic change in color of the
labia - turns bright red (women)
Wetness in the vagina (women)
Wetness oozing from penis (men)
Heavier, more intense breathing
Sex flush appears on stomach and
chest
Psychological Preparation
The most important
thing to remember stimulating your
partner is to get them mentally and
emotionally in the mood for erotic
sex. The brain is after all the most
powerful erogenous zone of all.
Setting the atmosphere by lighting
candles and ensuring privacy can be
very important. Men be sure your
women feel loved and secure to get
the most out of them. Men remember
that women often feel that we focus
on the genital stimulation way to
early, long before they get in the
mood. So help them arrive at a
fulfilled state and be lovingly
patient as you explore their body
and mind. Remember while exploring
your partners body be sure to use
all your senses, see it, feel it,
taste it, smell it, and ultimately
experience it!
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