Giving
her great orgasm by oral sex aka cunnilingus
Cunnilingus
is the act of using the mouth to stimulate
the female genitals. This can include
sucking or licking the outer and inner areas
of the vagina, and most often involves
direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some
women find cunnilingus to be the most
satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great
number of women report that oral sex is the
only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth
can create a uniquely intense range of
sensations which many find unrivaled.
Men are generally their own worst enemies
when it comes to pleasing a woman. On many
occasions men do everything wrong and the
woman ends up with little or no personal
satisfaction. I grant you that some women
get a rush by getting a guy off and getting
him to loose control and orgasm and they
have to go home or in a private place and
masturbate to get the physically stimulation
and orgasm that they so much need and
desire. Guys wake up. The women needs to be
tended to correctly and appreciated and give
her something that she strongly desires.
The mistakes made by men are many but for
this article I will address some of the
major problems many men have in pleasing a
woman.
1. Do not rush penetration. In fact on most
occasions many men who are considered great
lovers often times gives female many orgasms
before any type of sexual intercourse or
penetration. I will address this more, later
in this article.
2. Do not be ignorant into thinking that the
things you see on porn movies are what a
woman really wants. The action shots in most
porn movies are things that look good on
camera and the screams of ecstasy from the
female are for the viewers. So do not be
ignorant. These are generally geared toward
men and what looks and sounds good on film
and above all that remember they are actors.
3. Do not think that women are like you
(men). Men and women, as a generally rule
are greatly different. A man can cum and
have a wonderful orgasm relatively quick but
by the physically attraction and the feeling
of himself inside a warm wet vagina. Most
women need more than that!
I could write volumes on the mistakes made
by many men but to shorten this article and
to comply with the kiss (keep it simple
stupid) principle I will move into how to
care to a woman’s needs and desires and help
her reach a level of satisfaction that many
men cannot give her. The best way I know how
to achieve this is to take you through an
evening with a female and how you can unlock
the passion and desire while giving her the
orgasm that she so much deserves.
Giving your Woman Great Pleasure
First and foremost guys remember this above
all things a woman is a precious creature.
Her feminine beauty, her scent, her taste,
the sound of her voice and the feeling when
you connect. A woman’s by designed is to be
appreciated even though we think and see
things differently. She is to be adored as
that is the yin/yang (male/female) energy
that must flow.
RULE 1: Appreciate her entire being.
When you are with her make her feel safe and
secure way before you reach those intimate
and erotic moments in private. Be a bit
assertive when it comes to her protection,
both physically and emotionally. It is up to
you to make her feel safe and secure in your
presence.
RULE 2: Be the man, make her feel safe and
secure in your presence.
Guy a woman likes a quick witted man and
they love to laugh. So lighten up. Being
quick mentally does not mean being a smart
ass or belittling other men to make yourself
look better. It simple means that you have a
sharp mind, you are alert to what they are
saying and you do not clumsily stumble over
you words. It is okay if you are on a date
and you are a bit nervous, but be honest and
even laugh about it. Coming across as honest
and considerate will never fail you. Listen
to their words, help them relax and have fun
and be mentally alert as sharp at all times.
RULE 3: Listen to them, make them laugh and
be mentally sharp.
The build up to an evening of ecstasy can be
an important step in carrying you lady to
the greatest experience of her life. So the
day that you decide that you are ready be
sure to show you lady all the attention.
Even if you are at work. You can show her or
tease her with notes, cards, flowers, phone
calls, gift or however you choose and hint
at a night to remember. Be passionate and
secure and use all the charm and charisma
you have to build the anticipation.
RULE 4: Feed her mind and emotions with love
and erotica
Setting the mood for an extra ordinary
evening or erotica is an art all its own. So
when the time comes to give your lady that
something extra you can plan an evening
alone. You can either go out or you can do
this is the privacy of your. The right
atmosphere is always a plus. Low light,
candles, music, a fire, a hot tub, utilize
all the tools and your disposal to set the
mood for something special and shower her
with erotic, (discreet if in public) kisses
and slight touch.
RULE 5: Tease her slowly and gently long
before the bedroom. Help her relax and use
foreplay to stimulate her mind, body and
emotions preparing her for what’s next!
Nothing can get the sexual energy flowing by
caressing and touching the erogenous zones
of a woman. Let them and begin gently.
Click
here for more on erogenous zones. As you
explore her make note of what relaxes her
and what turns her on. If you are exploring
the clit (Clitoris) gently touch and pull
back and once you find the spot you will see
her involuntary muscles move and respond
after your touch. Her body will tell you
what feels good and what does not. While
doing this be very patient, even if she
wants you to make love to her immediately,
continue exploring until you know your
woman.
RULE 6: Know how and what turns your woman
on!
Pleasuring a woman with oral sex, in most
instances can bring her to the greatest
height or ecstasy. Be clear and understand
your woman vagina and all the parts of it.
The clitoris is the key to a female orgasm.
Learn it and open it by taking your finger
tips and opening it to what I call the seed,
gently pinning back all loose skin around
the clit with your fingers and exposing the
bud of essence. Once you have her exposed
then you can begin the quest of giving her
the greatest orgasm of her life!
RULE 7: Expose her seed of essence
Pin
back loose skin gently with your finger tips
and expose the clitoris fully.
Once you have her exposed begin to awaken
her by gently kisses and exploring with the
tongue. Each woman will be different in how
much pressure to apply at what stage. But
most agree on gentle rhythmic strokes. All
depends on the individual. There are a
couple of very important things to remember
about stimulating the clit. Never be in a
hurry, patience, patience, patience. Also
after you have teased her and have her
erotically responding, focus on that area
and continue to do the same thing by
gradually increasing pressure and movement.
Do not change decrease rhythm or pressure if
she is building to an orgasm. For example if
you are moving your tongue up and down on
her clit and you feel her building up to and
orgasm, then continue to move up and down.
Do not change and go side to side. This is
likely to cause the entire build up to have
to start over again.
RULE 8: Patience and consistence in rhythm
and pressure
Continue to explore and learn you lady and
her erogenous zones. Many women are very
sensitive at the two o’clock position of her
clit. While others may have other
preferences.
The
2 o’clock position is slight above the clit
protrusion and to the right if facing it, as
depicted in this picture
RULE 9: To be a great lover continue to
study and learn your woman.
You will to work and to find the right
amount of pressure and the correct time. As
a general rule do not start out hard and
fast (but there can be exceptions). But is
it all important to learn your woman and
find out what she desires. Even though they
are the same generally you can be that each
one is unique in her own right! You can
learn by watching her masturbate and
pleasing her self.
RULE 10: Begin to consider
giving her multiple orgasms
QUICK TIPS
1. Be sure your lady has time to clean up
and feel comfortable with her hygiene and it
will help her relax and be more sensual.
2. Experiment with the clitoris (clit) by
gently pinching, nibbling, and even jacking
it off like you would a small cock with two
fingers
3. Never rush your lady too an orgasm.
Quickly getting her off will come in time
and learning.
4. Learn other parts of her vagina. Explore
the opening and teasing around it with
fingers and tongue. Explore her pee hole. A
lot of potential sensitive areas exist on
your lady. Find them and help her let go and
enjoy.
5. Remember each and every woman is
different. What works for one may not work
for another.
6. Each time you strive to give you lady an
orgasm remember that her desires and
sensitivities maybe different from the last
time you were intimate.
7. NEVER stop learning. Each time you make
love, do something a bit different and
expand your horizons and her ecstasy.
20 Tips From Women (Listen Up Guys)
See how different and alike
women are
1. Use smooth gently strokes with
constant rhythm
2. Ask me what
I want guys.
Ask me and I will tell you.
3. Let your mouth and tongue do the
work I do not want or need deep fingering.
Only your mouth and tongue.
4. You do not have to be powerful
it only makes me uncomfortable.
Consistent, smooth and gentle does if for me
every time.
5.
Open my legs wide, open my click and lick my pussy,
gently flicking my clit, slowly at first
then faster and faster until I cum.
6.
Circle or back and forth consistent motions
does if for me and as I build, before a
climax finger my pussy.
7.
Changing speeds, pressure and rhythm as I am
building toward a climax is the most
frustrating for me.
8.
Humming on my click while sucking it drives
me crazy. Like having a tongue, mouth
and vibrator all at the same time and send
me to the stars.
9. I
hate it when a guy is giving me oral sex and
thinks that tongue fucking me will get
me off. Your tongue is not long or fat
enough to get me off!
10. I
love to hear my partner make erotic noise
with giving me oral sex. Sends me over
the edge!
11.
After I cum don' t think it over. A
good month and tongue will calm me down,
while getting me ready to cum again.
12. Let go
and enjoy the taste and smell of my pussy.
If I know a guy loves what he is doing it
will make me cum every time.
13. I
like the tongue soft and flat, not rigid and
pointed.
14.
Ask me if right there is the spot.
Don't assume you are pleasing me. I will
tell you where it is. Then do not
change or stop.
15. I
love a mouth and tongue on my clit and two
fingers inside. It does not mean that
I want to be finger fucked hard, just put
them inside me and focus on my clit.
16. I
will start moving once my lover finds the
right spot and I bet other women do the
same.
17.
Nothing makes it happen for me than a
confident lover that takes the time to look
up at me while he enjoys eating me.
18.
You can bet if I eat pineapple or watermelon
that I am going to get a great pussy eating.
It sweetens my taste.
19.
Just because I start moaning does not mean
faster and harder. It only means keep
up what you are doing and I am building to
an orgasm. Do not change a thing.
20.
Nothing I love more than a partner deeply
kissing my clit.
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