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Giving her great orgasm by oral sex aka cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many find unrivaled.

Men are generally their own worst enemies when it comes to pleasing a woman. On many occasions men do everything wrong and the woman ends up with little or no personal satisfaction. I grant you that some women get a rush by getting a guy off and getting him to loose control and orgasm and they have to go home or in a private place and masturbate to get the physically stimulation and orgasm that they so much need and desire. Guys wake up. The women needs to be tended to correctly and appreciated and give her something that she strongly desires.

The mistakes made by men are many but for this article I will address some of the major problems many men have in pleasing a woman.

1. Do not rush penetration. In fact on most occasions many men who are considered great lovers often times gives female many orgasms before any type of sexual intercourse or penetration. I will address this more, later in this article.
2. Do not be ignorant into thinking that the things you see on porn movies are what a woman really wants. The action shots in most porn movies are things that look good on camera and the screams of ecstasy from the female are for the viewers. So do not be ignorant. These are generally geared toward men and what looks and sounds good on film and above all that remember they are actors.
3. Do not think that women are like you (men). Men and women, as a generally rule are greatly different. A man can cum and have a wonderful orgasm relatively quick but by the physically attraction and the feeling of himself inside a warm wet vagina. Most women need more than that!

I could write volumes on the mistakes made by many men but to shorten this article and to comply with the kiss (keep it simple stupid) principle I will move into how to care to a woman’s needs and desires and help her reach a level of satisfaction that many men cannot give her. The best way I know how to achieve this is to take you through an evening with a female and how you can unlock the passion and desire while giving her the orgasm that she so much deserves.

Giving your Woman Great Pleasure

First and foremost guys remember this above all things a woman is a precious creature. Her feminine beauty, her scent, her taste, the sound of her voice and the feeling when you connect. A woman’s by designed is to be appreciated even though we think and see things differently. She is to be adored as that is the yin/yang (male/female) energy that must flow.

RULE 1: Appreciate her entire being.

When you are with her make her feel safe and secure way before you reach those intimate and erotic moments in private. Be a bit assertive when it comes to her protection, both physically and emotionally. It is up to you to make her feel safe and secure in your presence.

RULE 2: Be the man, make her feel safe and secure in your presence.

Guy a woman likes a quick witted man and they love to laugh. So lighten up. Being quick mentally does not mean being a smart ass or belittling other men to make yourself look better. It simple means that you have a sharp mind, you are alert to what they are saying and you do not clumsily stumble over you words. It is okay if you are on a date and you are a bit nervous, but be honest and even laugh about it. Coming across as honest and considerate will never fail you. Listen to their words, help them relax and have fun and be mentally alert as sharp at all times.

RULE 3: Listen to them, make them laugh and be mentally sharp.

The build up to an evening of ecstasy can be an important step in carrying you lady to the greatest experience of her life. So the day that you decide that you are ready be sure to show you lady all the attention. Even if you are at work. You can show her or tease her with notes, cards, flowers, phone calls, gift or however you choose and hint at a night to remember. Be passionate and secure and use all the charm and charisma you have to build the anticipation.

RULE 4: Feed her mind and emotions with love and erotica

Setting the mood for an extra ordinary evening or erotica is an art all its own. So when the time comes to give your lady that something extra you can plan an evening alone. You can either go out or you can do this is the privacy of your. The right atmosphere is always a plus. Low light, candles, music, a fire, a hot tub, utilize all the tools and your disposal to set the mood for something special and shower her with erotic, (discreet if in public) kisses and slight touch.

RULE 5: Tease her slowly and gently long before the bedroom. Help her relax and use foreplay to stimulate her mind, body and emotions preparing her for what’s next!

Nothing can get the sexual energy flowing by caressing and touching the erogenous zones of a woman. Let them and begin gently. Click here for more on erogenous zones. As you explore her make note of what relaxes her and what turns her on. If you are exploring the clit (Clitoris) gently touch and pull back and once you find the spot you will see her involuntary muscles move and respond after your touch. Her body will tell you what feels good and what does not. While doing this be very patient, even if she wants you to make love to her immediately, continue exploring until you know your woman.

RULE 6: Know how and what turns your woman on!

Pleasuring a woman with oral sex, in most instances can bring her to the greatest height or ecstasy. Be clear and understand your woman vagina and all the parts of it.

The clitoris is the key to a female orgasm. Learn it and open it by taking your finger tips and opening it to what I call the seed, gently pinning back all loose skin around the clit with your fingers and exposing the bud of essence. Once you have her exposed then you can begin the quest of giving her the greatest orgasm of her life!

RULE 7: Expose her seed of essence
Pin back loose skin gently with your finger tips and expose the clitoris fully.
Once you have her exposed begin to awaken her by gently kisses and exploring with the tongue. Each woman will be different in how much pressure to apply at what stage. But most agree on gentle rhythmic strokes. All depends on the individual. There are a couple of very important things to remember about stimulating the clit. Never be in a hurry, patience, patience, patience. Also after you have teased her and have her erotically responding, focus on that area and continue to do the same thing by gradually increasing pressure and movement. Do not change decrease rhythm or pressure if she is building to an orgasm. For example if you are moving your tongue up and down on her clit and you feel her building up to and orgasm, then continue to move up and down. Do not change and go side to side. This is likely to cause the entire build up to have to start over again.

RULE 8: Patience and consistence in rhythm and pressure

Continue to explore and learn you lady and her erogenous zones. Many women are very sensitive at the two o’clock position of her clit. While others may have other preferences.

The 2 o’clock position is slight above the clit protrusion and to the right if facing it, as depicted in this picture

RULE 9: To be a great lover continue to study and learn your woman.

You will to work and to find the right amount of pressure and the correct time. As a general rule do not start out hard and fast (but there can be exceptions). But is it all important to learn your woman and find out what she desires. Even though they are the same generally you can be that each one is unique in her own right! You can learn by watching her masturbate and pleasing her self.

RULE 10: Begin to consider giving her multiple orgasms

QUICK TIPS
1. Be sure your lady has time to clean up and feel comfortable with her hygiene and it will help her relax and be more sensual.
2. Experiment with the clitoris (clit) by gently pinching, nibbling, and even jacking it off like you would a small cock with two fingers
3. Never rush your lady too an orgasm. Quickly getting her off will come in time and learning.
4. Learn other parts of her vagina. Explore the opening and teasing around it with fingers and tongue. Explore her pee hole. A lot of potential sensitive areas exist on your lady. Find them and help her let go and enjoy.
5. Remember each and every woman is different. What works for one may not work for another.
6. Each time you strive to give you lady an orgasm remember that her desires and sensitivities maybe different from the last time you were intimate.
7. NEVER stop learning. Each time you make love, do something a bit different and expand your horizons and her ecstasy.

20 Tips From Women (Listen Up Guys)
See how different and alike women are

1. Use smooth gently strokes with constant rhythm

2. Ask me what I want guys. Ask me and I will tell you.

3. Let your mouth and tongue do the work I do not want or need deep fingering. Only your mouth and tongue.

4. You do not have to be powerful it only makes me uncomfortable. Consistent, smooth and gentle does if for me every time.

5. Open my legs wide, open my click and lick my pussy, gently flicking my clit, slowly at first then faster and faster until I cum.

6. Circle or back and forth consistent motions does if for me and as I build, before a climax finger my pussy.

7. Changing speeds, pressure and rhythm as I am building toward a climax is the most frustrating for me.

8. Humming on my click while sucking it drives me crazy. Like having a tongue, mouth and vibrator all at the same time and send me to the stars.

9. I hate it when a guy is giving me oral sex and thinks that tongue fucking me will get me off. Your tongue is not long or fat enough to get me off!

10. I love to hear my partner make erotic noise with giving me oral sex. Sends me over the edge!

11. After I cum don' t think it over. A good month and tongue will calm me down, while getting me ready to cum again.

12. Let go and enjoy the taste and smell of my pussy. If I know a guy loves what he is doing it will make me cum every time.

13. I like the tongue soft and flat, not rigid and pointed.

14. Ask me if right there is the spot. Don't assume you are pleasing me. I will tell you where it is. Then do not change or stop.

15. I love a mouth and tongue on my clit and two fingers inside. It does not mean that I want to be finger fucked hard, just put them inside me and focus on my clit.

16. I will start moving once my lover finds the right spot and I bet other women do the same.

17. Nothing makes it happen for me than a confident lover that takes the time to look up at me while he enjoys eating me.

18. You can bet if I eat pineapple or watermelon that I am going to get a great pussy eating. It sweetens my taste.

19. Just because I start moaning does not mean faster and harder. It only means keep up what you are doing and I am building to an orgasm. Do not change a thing.